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Im conflicted. I've been together with my gf for about 2 years now, and we've had a problem for about a year now. Before I met her I used to look at porn, but a month into the relationship I didnt really feel looking at it anymore, so I stopped. I dont 100% remember why I stopped, but it made my gf happy. She didnt have a problem with porn at that time, but she still got happy when I told her that I didnt need it anymore because I has her.
However, I started looking at it again a month after that. I felt that I performed better im bed with her if I looked at porn the day before, but she told me that she didnt feel a difference. I did tho. She didnt really mention anything about it, so I didnt think that it was bothering her.
At around 3-5 months into our relationship she ask me to quit porn. She told me that she didnt want to be in a relationship where porn is involved and that it didnt feel right. I told her that it had nothing to do with her, and that I only looked at it to perform better with her. She tried to compromise with me by sending me nudes, or watching it together. I didnt really want any of those. I was a bit ashamed of my kinks, and I didnt want her pictures to be leaked incase my phone got hacked.
After a discussion I agreed to the nudes thing, but I didnt stop with porn. My gf asked my to atleast try to quit porn and that she would do anything sexual I wanted with her. I tried. But it ended up with me lying about it for 3 months.
I then told her that I had been lying to her. I had never given up porn and was lying to her for a couple of months.
But now I promised her to stop looking at it for real, and she gave me a second chance. I looked at porn the day after I made that promise, but I hated it. I only watched maybe 2min of the video, but I didnt like it. I told her that and said that I was over with porn.
Its been a year since I've looked at porn, but I still miss it sometimes and get cravings.
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My gf insist that I still miss it because of my view of it. I think that its a selfcenterd thing. But my gf disagrees. Her argument is that if it was selfcenterd then I would be okay with other dudes jacking off to her pictures (which im not). She doesnt want that either but she claims that I would have been okay with that if I really thought that it was selfcenterd.
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Tldr: I miss porn sometimes but I love my gf. What should I do? I dont miss it nearly as much as I did in the beginning
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>>18589178
Also, she think that its still a problem because I get cravings to look at porn once a month. I think that we have solved this since I havent been looking at anything for a year. I really dont know what to do.
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If you're on 4chan, you're still looking at porn, don't kid yourse.f
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>>18589321
I sometimes see it on meme pages but I ignore it. So no, I dont activly search or look for it.
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I seriously dont know what to do. Any piece of insight or advice would be helpful
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>>18589178
Sex in a relationship shouldn't be about performance.
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