So here's the short version:
I really emotionally clicked with a temp worker from France last month.
She has a lot of great qualities that make her an exceptional human being but also has a lot of flaws that make her seem so relatable to me. And yeah she's basically exactly what I want in my dream girl looks wise.
And of course a women so well rounded already has a boyfriend.
She's back home in France now and my heart has been hurting. I've had strong affections for women before but never like this. This is the first time I'm seriously considering flying out to confess my feelings to a girl.
Guys this is the first time I've seriously considered taking a risk this size....
What should I do?
dont go to her. have u ever like kissed or fucked her?
just because you have crush on her... dont waste money
Both of those are reasons not to pursue her. She's in France, you'll forget about her in no time.
>>18587213
I almost always say yes to chasing a oneitis, because you have nothing to lose, but she is in another country with her boyfriend and you barely know her. Pull it together man
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>>18587260
My brain is saying yes to all of you. But my heart is hurting like a motherfucker....
Fuck.... Why am I feeling this way?!?
>>18587260
>I almost always say yes to chasing a oneitis
Really? It seems like it would just end up badly in a vast majority of cases.