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So here's my dilemma, /adv/.
My story starts two months ago when my girlfriend of three and a half years broke up with me, seemingly out of nowhere (in hindsight, I was naive to have not seen it coming). I thought everything was going well. I had just graduated and planned on finding work while I figured out what I wanted to do with my future. She, on the other hand, had already interned with a company and has a big job lined up for when she graduates with her masters.
The breakup hit me hard, as you can imagine, but I recovered and tried to make the most of it. I saw it as an opportunity of self-growth and improvement. I did a lot of thinking and I really readjusted my outlook on life and tried to live and healthy and be in shape.
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My ex and I are not on speaking terms currently. And a couple weeks ago I thought I might try to brace the dating world again, so I downloaded Tinder (I know, I know), and ended up matching with this girl that I have a lot in common with.
Now, she isn't the most attractive girl I've ever met, definitely not better than my ex. But she's also not unattractive by any means. I'd say a solid 6.5/10. I met with her and we ended up going on several dates. After two weeks I ended up having sex with her in a spur of the moment kind of thing.
I don't want to use the word regret for this situation, because that doesn't seem right. But something about sleeping with this girl is not sitting right with me. She is the second girl I've had sex with. And after having had sex with her, I don't feel the desire to date her anymore, which makes me feel like a piece of human garbage. I usually do not move relationships along that fast and I kinda jumped into it with my dick instead of my brain and now I just feel weird about it. And I miss my ex more than anything, whereas beforehand I thought I was on the road to really getting over her.
I suppose I just need some clarity about what I'm feeling and what I should do to help myself feel better. Should I just forget about women for a while and keeping focusing on myself? Any advice is appreciated.
tldr; two months since ex broke up with me, had sex with a girl from tinder after a couple dates and now I feel weird about it
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Early 20s first breakup?
Thank yourself for fulfilling your natural needs, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Embrace the abundance mentality, there are so many out there waiting to meet you!
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