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I invited a girl to coffee and we had a nice time, so I organised a lunch for the next meet. She texts me later saying she's just had a breakup, is in a complicated relationship with her friend and so isn't 'looking for anything'.
Does this mean I should swap things over to drinks and just treat this like a casual/FWB thing?
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I don't understand, what's wrong with lunch? Why change your plans?
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Uh if you haven't had the "benefits" part, I wouldn't get your hopes up.
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>>18584364
text her back
"just wanna netflix and chill then?"
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>>18584373
I'm assuming she interpreted lunch as "oh he's interested in developing a relationship but I'm not looking for that"
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"OK hit me up if you change your mind"
Then initiate No Contact
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>>18584381
She might have, but lunch is also something that you can do with friends. I hope you're not trying to wiggle yourself into something she doesn't want btw.
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>>18584388
I just like spending comfy time with girls and if I can keep it to one then all the better. I don't go out looking for casual relationships.
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>>18584393
Unless 'casual relationship' means 'friendship' to you, you don't have a casual relationship.
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