I had sex with a girl I'm "friends" with after alcohol was involved. I use quotation marks because she is more like a friend of a friend but I see her around all the time when I'm with some of my friends. I basically haven't said or done anything besides give her my phone number the morning after and it's been 2 days.
I'm pretty sure I'm not interested in something beyond sex, so I want to know how I should take it from here while still keeping her interest. She is a very cool lady and all, and I would like to stay friends, but I can't imagine us being legitimately romantic with each other.
Should I just casually snap her or start a conversation? Should I text her and set ground rules? It just seems so unnatural and unattractive.
It's inevitable that I will see her around again. She also is going to be going to my bands show next week.
is it cool if I act like nothing happened and don't mention it? Maybe I should ask her to hang out soon? If it comes up obviously I'll joke my way out of it, but I also don't want to close the door for it being a continuing thing. As in if we don't establish fwb I'm cool with it being a one time thing but I'd rather not hurt her or be rude and permanently shut that door forever
>>18579031
don't take it to social media, keep it real.
Just be casual next time you all are around, and if you want to, and have the chance to, try and get her alone for another bone session.