Tldr: have gf, thinking about other people and don't want to hurt her.
I have a gf and I love her to death. She loves me even more back and we're gonna hit our 1 year together pretty soon. Lately though I've been having a lot if thoughts/dreams and fantasies about being with other people, (mostly guys. I'm bi) and I don't know what to do. These thoughts just keep getting more and more frequent and I don't want to hurt her. I'm not gonna cheat or anything. Advice would be great.
>>18578571
Everyone has passing fancies. No big deal. There's no anyone in specific that you're thinking about, is there?
>>18578581
Yeah kinda. And these thoughts have been going on for a few months now
>>18578571
Fap..
I find as soon as I'm done the thoughts go away
>>18578587
It's not sexual shit for the most part
If you're having these thoughts during the honeymoon phase then you're either not ready for monogamy or not as interested in her as you thought. I'm nonmonogamous and not even I think about other people until I've been with the person at least 2 years.