>so
>few years ago, we had a thing going
>didnt last super long but things were going fast and it was fun
>then all the sudden
>one day
>she stopped responding
>didnt talk to me for a few months
>"wtf" -me
>then she came back
>we were in highschool
>said her dad took her phone
>know that part is true
>then she messaged me
>said she missed me and shit
>was ready to jump right back into it all
>but idk
>i had kinda fallen out of it with her
>so i just stopped responding
>do what she did to me
>and every few months
>she would message me
>"why wont you talk to me clay?"
>"can we please have a conversation?"
>stuff like that
>every few months for over a year
>one night she messaged me
>fucking came to my house once after like 14 months of us not talking
>i had another gf at the time
>so i blocked her
>seen her around town a few times since then
>couple times a year
>"hi anon" "hey"
>no real talking
>then idk what happened the other night
>but i saw someone like her
>and it just hit me what an asshole i had been
>and how fucking stupid i was
>she loved me
>and i just cut her off
>so i unblocked her
>messaged her the other night
>hit me with this
>im gonna ask her to meetup tomorrow]
>but im just wondering if i can do anything
>am i gonna show up and shes just gonna be pissed?
>because a "its fine" after 3+ years of ignoring her seems like something someone would be upset at
>and idk
>idk if there is actually anything here
Idk guys, i just feel like an asshole. I know that I need to atleast make it up with her, but I'm going to ask her to hang out. It feels fucking weird. Over a year of her begging for anything from me, and I blocked her, and she just, "fine"
I don't know what exactly I need here, please, just help me
>>18577940
You don't owe people time or attention just because they are desperate for it.
>>18577940
What you want is for us to tell you that it's all gonna be okay, and we can-- but we shouldn't. You just have to go in and see for yourself how it's going to go... it might be good, it might be bad. It might be something totally unexpected. But, you know, just... go and do it without pretense. Be there because you care about her, not because you want to date her or something about you and your needs.
That tip can generally get you lots of places with most girls. They hate pretense because female-to-female interaction seems to be all about it.