pls help me, i'm having such a head fuck with this
>be me
>dating girl from tinder for 4 months
>she's great but has really bad depression and anxiety
>struggles to be affectionate and is a virgin
>i've been with a few girls and i'm desperate to fuck her
>been 4 months and we've tried a few times but every time she just gets too nervous
>had a talk today and she said she doesn't really have a sex drive
>said she doesn't know if she's interested in sex
>we're meeting again next week and getting drunk and maybe doing some coke
do you think there's any hope for this? I really like the girl and she's fun to be around but I can't cope with the lack of affection and sexual stuff, the best I can get from her is kissing
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I'm not so sure that coke is good for anxiety.
>>18577704
she said she's done it before but it's been a while
I was kinda hoping it'd give her some sort of sexual energy cause a lot of people use it as a sexual stimulant
it's like she's said to me she wants to try have sex but she just gets so nervous, then today she backtracked on that
>>18577719
>Shes done cocaine before
>virgin
Hmmm
cut all ties ASAP, she's a liar and a nutcase
get an escort
>>18577698
tell her that you're looking for a sexual relationship, and unfortunately she's not up to snuff.
break up with her; she either fucks you in an attempt to keep you, or you dodge a bullet.
Win-Win.
Sex on coke is shitty
It makes you horny yes but your dick/vagoo will just feel numb when you actually get down to do it
I had a similar problem with my first girlfriend. I think the issue was that she had never really had a proper orgasm before as she didn't masturbate and was a virgin. Load up on baby oil and get some scented candles, play some bobby blue or beatles or something. Sensual massage, turn that bitch onnnnnnnnnnn then go down on her. Make her cum like a motherfucker. I'm hardly an expert but I find that if you avoid the clitoris as much as you can while bringing her to O, then don't go mental but give the clit some serious attention once she's beginning to climax it should make her diamonds. works 60% of the time every time. If that's a little in at the deep end maybe see if mutual masturbation is something that she'd be willing to give a go to take it to the next level of intimacy. Best of luck dude, I don't mean this in a shitty way but if you're not serious about this girl don't even bother with it. It'll only be disappointing for you and cause her even more issues. That said best of luck dude I hope you work things out. coke is a terrible idea imho opinion though
>>18579861
>avoid the clitoris as much as you can while bringing her to O
With tongue? How does one do this?
>>18579976
LOTS of foreplay unfortunately. Sometimes like an hour, and she'll get really pissed off if you make a joke or something. Like once she was making me read her poetry while fingerblasting her and I was bored shitless so I just went full Asian and starting talking in a Korean accent and she walked out put on a top left her skirt and shoes and drove home with just bra and granny pants no socks or shoes just bikini style. But yeah back to my point its hard to explain you sort of have to zero your way in to her fanny. Just touch lots of her body in different parts and abuse those cheat code erogenous zones.
http://i.imgur.com/cbtUf.jpg
Different people have different ones, get to know her body a bit until you've got a rough idea of what does the trick. Then pull of the legendary 1-7 Scale:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdK6LVDI3kg