You know how fearful people are told to just go for it because

well what was it? you can spill your guts here. I'm probably the only one reading this thread. here, I'll even sage it so no one else knows.

If you can be more specific, you can get better advice.

Overall, I would just try again. Try, try again, Abraham Lincoln, it can only get better with practice. Do not give up. It's not about how many times you get knocked down it's about how many times you get knocked down and are willing to stand up.

The way I see it the absolute worst thing that can possibly happen is you die and that is an inevitability. Once you realize and accept this you are free from all fear.

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Gave a woman a disappointing sexual experience she immediately lost interest and started treating me like a friend slash little brother despite me being 4 years her senior. I wanted to try again but every time I tried to make a move or alluded to sex she got visibly uncomfortable and put space between us. She wouldn't even call it sex just "what happened between us". It was pretty humiliating and every time I get an erection now I feel overwhelming failure and shame.