My gf never wants to do anything sexual and I'm always the

>>18577046

pretty common. they say men need to be sexually pleased in order to become affectionate, and women need affection in order to become sexually aroused. Its the reason why a common thing even in married couples is for the husband to take her out to dinner, get some flowers, give her a back rub, and then fuck her.

girls like sex but its the kind of thing you don't really think about until you're aroused. imagine if you never got hungry until someone was done cooking something. you'd have no appetite, you wouldn't be thinking 'wow id love pizza tonight' you'd feel no urge until it was in front of you and you can smell it.

thats what a lot of women's sexuality is like.

It means you're not very sexually attractive in her eyes
She might like you in other ways and might not be completely sexually repulsed by you but she's also not very attracted

Maybe she just has a lower sex drive than you? Or she just isn't interested in sex or leans more on the asexual side of things? Only way to find out is by asking her friend. If anything's ever bothering you, you should just tell her. You gotta be honest with each other in these situations.

>>18577046

>What does this mean?

It means you need to sit down and have an honest conversation with your girlfriend about her sex drive, not a bunch of teenage virgins on the internet.

Maybr nothing, Ive been with my boyfriend for a long time and I only kinda initiated once. I love sex with him, at times I wish we'd have it but I'm too shy to say anything.

>>18577052
I tell her so much that I love her I take her out all the time and I spend so much time kissing her and shit and when the time comes she's just like "not today"

>>18577059
I did she just says she doesn't have a high sex drive. I told her maybe she should try making a move first one time or something she said said "okay" and it never happened

>>18577063
>>18577068

sorry it sounds like thats just the way she is. you can experiment a little to see if there's some particular kink or G spot you havent quite discovered, i mean if you just work on that clitorris its hard not to enjoy it.