How do I make friends and build a relationship with a girl?
I genuinely want to make friends with her and be close mentally firdt. Sex is not the goal, I just want to be deeply friends with her. If sex comes, then fine.
I don't even want a romantic relationship, I just want to be good friends with her.
How do I do this? We text and go out on the weekends. I'm getting to know her slowly, but I want to be truly carefree and just make her a close close friend. How?
>>18576331
Try talking to one, but imagine shes a dude.
>>18577190
Why do I have to imagine her as a dude to get close to her?
>>18577206
because apparentlyyou think that girls are some sort of different life form, when they're just humans like you and me, imagining them as dudes will make you treat them normally
How do I get flambéd qt gf?
>>18576331
>make friends
You don't.
>>18577221
What would you do?
>>18577207
Good point Im gonna ask her to paintball then
>>18577301
if she's into it, why not?
I get that this was sarcastic though, so just dont be retarded about it, of course you will still treat her depending on her personailty and interests, not just the same way you wuld treat your current best friend...
>>18576331
Same way you don't decide who will date you, you don't decide who will be your friend.
Just hang out and have fun, don't look for a "deep" connection. Just let it happen.
just treat her like a person like someone else said, but keep in mind she is of the opposite sex, so be mindful of your more quirky traits or else you'll scare her off, its not like with guys where we brush off a little weirdness when we meet new guys, there's more for them to lose if they think you're not normal enough.