How do you ask for a coworkers number? on a platonic basis (for

>>18575363
If you see her daily at work then why do you need her number as the first move? I'd think it was more awkward to call to someone you just met and chat up.
Why not just agree to hang out face to face at lunchbreak and make a date in advance? Just ask if she wants to grab some coffee after work. It's casual enough to seem like you don't immediately want to fuck.

I consider asking for people's numbers a bar thing where you actually never see the person again and you actually traded numbers for the sole purpose of finding the other sexually pleasing and you want to fuck them when both sober up.

>>18575373
I work with her 2 or 3 days a week. but looks like it could be less in the future

so it's kind of weird right to get her number?

should i maybe just ask her once it's known that she will be working with us less or won't be a regular with us? so it at least seems like I have an excuse to keep in touch?

when that day comes how should I go about asking

>>18575373
>Just ask if she wants to grab some coffee after work
Not op but what if I'm in a similar situation and the girl works way late?

>>18575363
>on a platonic basis

Lmao it doesn't sound like it.

Don't ask for her number, it will come off as creepy. flirt with her at work if she seems into it, keep things casual and if it works out then it works out, if not then take it as a learning experience

>>18575406
What are some flirt techniques. I haven't done this shit in ages. possibly I have been doing it without realizing

would it seem weird and noticeable if got started doing it all of a sudden

>>18575452
Depends, how close/friendly are you with her at the moment?

Do you have her as a friend on social media?

>>18575363
>on a platonic basis (for now)
Oh a stealth courtship where she has no idea your orbit gives her an opportunity to fall for you. Contrary to popular belief women do know what you are doing

>>18575461
nope I don't use social media anymore which is mainly why I was thinking of asking for her number.

is that a bad sign.

I guess social media is the first personal contact form people trade these days. :/

>>18575530
Try Snapchat?

>>18575583
I don't have one.

is it just a messenger or do people see who you are following and how many followers you have plus how active you are on it?