>tfw /fit/ mods didn't like my feels threads How does

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>tfw /fit/ mods didn't like my feels threads

How does one "make the leap" into a social/sex life? Im not talking about attractiveness or social skills, I'm talking about overcoming this anxiety when put in a situation to make it. When around attractive women I get anxiety from the possibility of sexual tension. If I get approached by one my fight or flight response kicks in, sort of like when you almost got in a fight in school but pussied out. I think I'm extremely insecure and can't fathom the idea of opening up to somebody that isn't in my family or a close friend, especially if they're attractive and are in a position to judge me from there.

At times I feel like being single and alone is almost *better* because at least then I don't have to be under pressure constantly, and think about being under pressure when I'm not.

The one caveat is if I'm even a little bit drunk I don't care anymore and am up for anything. I almost made it a few times when out drinking but didnt out of coincidence (bros before hos situation). I wonder if I had made it while drunk would it have helped cured me of this autism while sober?