So an anon said this in another section and it's basically

It's something you can do by learning how people work and changing yourself.

Stop being son focused on getting laid ?
There are two reasons you're looking for any girl : sex and social consideration

For social, well, you're an alien (I perfectly relate to what you said). No point in trying : they instantly know. No amount of edfort will be of any use.

Just make yourself comfortable with your status and stop focusing on sex dammit.

not true. I went from no gf to juggling multiple gfs at a time. study some pua and do self improvement.

Check out this thread: >>>/fit/42333180

>>18573531
I get depressed. I don't need to womanize. A gf or fwb would be fine.

>>18573514
How?

>>18573287
I would largely consider myself an alien to the regular bits of society. I was the guy who tried to make plans with everyone he knew but seemingly none agreed to such plans. I was always very temperate with everyone I knew as well so no douchwagonry here. However to this day I still have no friends. By happy accident I now have a recently made fiance of 4 years now and can't even believe how it's possible. I used to always play the "let's label my mental illness so I can feel justified" game. But now I dropped all the pills and I realized it's not about what they tell me I am. It's not about what anybody tells me I am. It's about what problems I see and what problems I let stop me from living life. So live life strongly and good shit rolls in whether by coincidence or hard work. Sounds corny as shit but it's true

It's an outlook thing. Putting pussy on a pedestal is the prime offender; more often than not, this is a lot to do with a lack of restraint. Subtlety is the language of women and they love when guys can play their game-- even moreso when they do it better.

These people tend to be clingers, yellers, spazzers and touchers. These are the guys who have to ask every girl for a hug. These are the guys who start texting hourly the day after the first date. These are the guys who smell like musty laundry and BO. These are the guys who have dump-guts and wear them like Homer Simpson.

>inb4 gotta be hot
>inb4 gotta be thin
>inb4 gotta have genetics

If you do, so does some chud-ugly chick out there. Stop trying to shoot for people out of your league. It might be flattering at first to you, but it's pushing you further down this hole.

For starters, make someone you can stand to be around. If you don't want to be around yourself, why the fuck ask another? If you don't put in the time and effort to care about yourself that your target girl does, why the fuck would she sell short just on the off-chance you might not be an emotionally underdeveloped spaz-case? Most importantly, if everything you're doing is defined by dating, anyone who dates you basically gets the lynchpin of your confidence riding on them-- I don't know how you shits deal with or like pressure, but most people prefer to relax, ease out and forget their worldly woes. What you're doing is helping them with none of that.

In the end, these people are beset upon by their own issues, each of them. It takes a special kind of person to realize that flaw in themselves, but tons of hentai-fapping, cum-socking nerds manage to score on a daily basis. Your only excuse is that you feel like life hands things out arbitrarily.

You might be ugly, but an ugly attitude is all on you. If you classify yourself as that, that's what people are gonna see-- you're the expert on you, not us.

>>18573287
Do you accept that people are unable to change? If you accept that, then it is true. As someone that was alone for his entire teenage years, but then started studying what women liked (Rom Coms) and implementing it, I was able to change. It wasn't overnight (bad actors aren't made into good actors overnight, either).

But if you want an excuse to give up, you've got one.

>>18574843

>I talk to these bitches
>I make these bitches laugh
>I get the number and they make excuses on why they cant go on the date

Idk what I'm doing wrong