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For any of you who recognize this picture (which might be like, 4 of you), it's the guy with that memory loss again. I think I'm fucked, she doesn't say she loves me anymore, she does everything else but that. She sends hearts, sets aside time to talk, tells me I'm cute and she doesn't want to live without me, but she doesn't say that she loves me anymore.


For any of you who don't know my story, I have anterograde memory loss from a car crash a few years back. I've had psychosomatic pain in my right leg for two years, and I can no longer see out of my left eye, because of this, I am still in my parent's custody despite being 22. I have this LDgf who I'm planning on running away to in about 6 months. My parents take my disability checks, and do not use them to care for me. I have no job, (can't get one, if it wasn't obvious enough), and I'm really close to ending it. However, I've always thought of my gf as a refuge to a better life, as she claims that she loves and cares about me (and she also has a decent paying job). So basically, I'm set if she stays loyal. But, if she doesn't, I have no one to go to, and nothing to live for. I just want to know how to reinforce a relationship, or something like that. I don't know.
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>>18573281
My girl stopped telling me she loved me about two months before she left me last week. Prepare yourself emotionally.
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>>18573300
Oh, great.
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I don't want to live anymore, I think it's over my dudes. Thank you all for your advice.
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>>18574034
Have fun in the afterlife. Tell us how it was in the next post OP.
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what the fuck is this shit.

don't kill yourself you nigger
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>>18573281
how much are you getting for disability? if you parents aren't using it to care for you then you probably have some kind of negligence case.
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>>18574085
I don't want to start that shit. I just want to leave them and never return. Problem is, I don't think I have any one to go to now. I think I'm fucked.
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>>18573281
maybe you should hook up with >>18573857
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>>18574210
Well I guess if that's your attitude you probably are fucked. You can't expect things to get better if you don't want to "start that shit".

I mean, I hate people killing themselves. It's really a massive waste but I guess I have to accept some people really don't want to put in the work to get better in life.
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>>18574219
Ha.
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>>18573281
And I thought I was angry before.
This is just bitter news. Please write your story online before you decide anything. People should at least know.
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>>18574222
Ha. I can't even remember what I had for breakfast, and you expect me to be able to win a court case against them?
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>>18574235
I just want advice on how to fix a dying relationship, really. It's not just relationship I want to save, it's my own life, my kids who don't exist yet and might never exist, I don't want to live under their roof anymore.
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>>18574219
Ha, nah. I'm only into slightly damaged girls.
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>>18574241
Yes. At the very least you'll find people willing to help you, willing to put in the work to make your life better. Life isn't fair (a cliche I know). My life was pretty fucked. Not as fucked as yours objectively, but still fucked. I wouldn't say I've made it through unscathed but somehow I made it through alive. If you spend your life running away from problems it will eventually catch up and you'll run out of places to run to. If you throw all your eggs into the basket of running away with some stranger on the internet and that fails, then what? You seem to think this is your lost shot at life, it's really not.
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>>18574256
I agree with the other guy. At the very least write out your story. It gives clarity when you can reflect on your thoughts for long periods of time. It's hard enough to do when you have a good memory.
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>>18574281
She is no stranger, but I do see your point. The problem is, let's say I do go to court, and win the case, then what? I have three options then, my gf, the streets/institution/shelter, or back at my parents house.
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>>18574288
>>18574235
I think I will do that.
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>>18574302
Is that really your only options?

Could you tell me more about your disability. I'm new to your thread, I didn't see the last one.
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>>18574256
I'm sorry but I understand why your girlfriend doesn't say she loves you anymore.

It's clear you're using her as a way out and it's fucked up. She can't save you.
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>>18574312
Anterograde memory loss means that I cannot create and crystallize new memories. Psychosomatic limb pain is pain caused by intense feelings of stress that usually make the limb unusable. And, I don't know specifically what made my eye blind. Basically, every couple of hours, I think it's august 11 of 2013. Then relearn everything again, some things stay with me, others don't.
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>>18574312
I don't really have any other options, none that are realistic, really.
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>>18574320
Have you tried keeping a journal?

>>18574316

This is a good point, she may feel you're putting to much pressure on her. Like your life is literally in her hands. This can make people recoil as it's a lot of responsibility to put on someone.

>>18574321
There are a lot of companies that specialize on getting disabled people into the work force. have you tried contacting them?
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>>18574316
I hope you're wrong, but, I doubt that you are. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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>>18574328
Yes, I have a journal, that's how I relearn everything happening in my life. And I have not contacted any. Which, is stupid of me, but thank you.
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>>18574339
No worries. Based on what you've told me you could be suited to repetitive tasks (which is a surprising amount of jobs), the idea being when you're less likely to forget something that you do constantly.
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>>18574346
Thank you.
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>>18574316
Holy shit, I just told her that it's fine if I don't run away, and i think I'm back to moving with her as my plan A. So, thanks for that.
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>>18574366
What happened exactly?
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>>18574377
I just said it's up to her, and that I've made a few backup plans. And, I think we are good now. She just said "what? No!" And then I asked if it scares her, she said, yes, she doesn't want me to be caught, I explained the plan I have, and now I think she is still my plan a.
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>>18574394
Ok that's good. Just don't make it the be all and end all.
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>>18574404
Nope, nevermind. It's over.
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>>18574439
What happened?
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>>18574439
Anon, what are you doing?
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>>18574288

dis good advice for everyone, not just OP.
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>>18573281
Why not do the best you can in the situation?
Trying to learn and do thing in your home, prepare to be a househusband or something like that.
You can do sweet things for her even in your condition. Maybe she misses that, cause right now you are only a baggage, even if she still likes you.
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