all my relationships have formed organically over time, through friends of friends, coursemates etc...
now, as i face my final months of freedom with 9-5 career looming over me, what's the best advice for becoming more proactive at finding romance such that i can escape from my crippling anxiety, depression, and fear of dying alone?
many thanks
>>18572948
Hobbies.
Find shit that you like doing that involves groups of people.
You gain interaction, plus you'll have a common interest as a baseline.
>>18572948
Exactly the same way you did it before. Meet new people at work, or among neighbors, or through hobbies or volunteer work. Meet their friends through them, Some will be female.
You've already learned the one big lesson most 4channers haven't - that the best romances grow out of friendships, not random pickups.
The larger your circle of acquaintances, the larger your sub-set of friends and your sub-sub set of friends-who-are-girls.