I'm an introverted person. My friends want me to hang out with them all the time, and I'm happy to hang out with them sometimes but after a long week of work I really need a day to myself just to feel okay. I don't want to make excuses every time I just want to do my own things. What can I say that they'll understand? I just lied to them that I have to work tomorrow and I feel really bad about it.
Just explain to them the same thing that you've just wrote...
Tell 'me that you're tired and not down for it..
>>18571311
Should I tell them I lied about having to work or should I just shut the fuck up. I kind of feel like they already guessed but I dunno.
>>18571317
bit too late for that. just don't lie in the future.
>>18571289
"I don't feel like that, I need a day to myself. Have fun guys!"
>>18571289
Just tell them "Nah I can't make it". They will eventually stop inviting you.
>>18572652
>They will eventually stop inviting you.
I don't want that to happen though, that's the biggest thing I'm worried about.
>>18572702
Why not? I assume you work a set schedule so if you always want to veg out on the weekends what's going to change? Why should they keep wanting you to come out when you're never going to want to because you're always tired from the week?
Be honest - you want to hang out, but you're tired and need to decompress first.