I don't know what to do /adv/. I've been in a long

The anxiety I get from even thinking about it is so bad I can't sleep or eat when I have to think about dealing with her or the friend group. Any help would be appreciated.

>>18568078

You leave her.
She is controlling and a loser.
Stick with your friends.
I'm sorry to put ot so bluntly but stop talking to her completely. Message her " we are done don't talk to me again ".
Then never talk to her again.
If you stay with her you will be miserable. If you stay with her she will hurt you bf those around you. She will turn you on your friends and family and you will be a pet to her. She doesn't respect the space you want or your desires to be around other people.
Stay the fucj away from her op
I know breaking up hurts but please get out now

>>18568101
Thank you for the advice. I've tried to tell her I want to break up but she always manages to end up making me unable to leave her. Should I just block her on everything and try to ghost her? I don't want to be rude like that but if its a good idea...

>>18568104
Block her in everything.
It's not rude. This is how you keep psycho people away from you.
I've been in both sides of no contact.
It works. Give it time.

>>18568078
You shouldn't have to abandon anybody. I've been in a long distance relationship before. You can't live your life tethered by a screen no matter how much you like her, because being with someone in person and being with someone on the internet will always be two wildly different things. Either way, she needs to be OK existing on her own. She needs to be OK letting you hang out with people when she can't be there. You cannot be glued together at the hip 24/7. It's not humanly possible. If the 2 of you are incapable of existing outside of being a couple, then you are in a codependent relationship. Those are horrible and toxic.

If you can't convince her that you love her but need to be able to live your life, you should break up with her. Otherwise you're going to be stuck with resenting her while you continue this horrible cycle.

>>18568108
>>18568109
Thank you both for the advice. I'll just try to tell her straight up tomorrow then remove her from my social medias. I needed to hear it.
I'm still here if anyone else wants to comment, and also something else to consider: she usually blames alot of her shortcomings like not wanting to be with our friend group on her mental illnesses (social anxiety, depression) and I didn't know if it was an excuse for me to want to stay with her or legitimate reason, even though they liked her and wanted to be around her.

>>18568121
Be careful when you talk to her.
She will say anything to force you to stay with her. She will probably talk about her feeling it depression in an attempt to guilt you into staying with her or may even claim she was raped( which may or may not be true). Do not talk. Ther should be no discussion. You should tell her. This is it. This is a good bye curtosy call. And end the skype call. Block her. And be done with it. Then stay strong. Get out of the house and go do something fun.
Gl Op these things are dangerous and they can really hurt you. I hope you do alright

>>18568121
It could be legitimate reasons on her part. But at some point you have to ask yourself how long you're going to let her problems bring you down, especially if she's not willing to get help for her depression or get help with her anxiety so she won't be as weird about your friend group.

You can't save her. She has to save herself first.

>>18568141
Thank you for the advice. I always just believed that she wasnt manipulative and she was being honest but I just dont know anymore