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Bad memories. Ex girlfriends. Girls that I want that I can't have. Missed opportunities. Toxic people.
The standard advice is to "walk away and live well", and that's exactly what I've been doing in life. If something is toxic and sour, I dip the fuck out. For example, I used to be a dweeb in high school, and I used to keep in contact with a couple people, so one day I decided to just cut everyone off, delete everyone from social media, and just rip that page out of the book.
It feels... weird. Just disappearing like that. Ghosting away from a part of my life. There's no closure and it's not satisfying, even after multiple years of doing this. I have a burnign desire for closure, for revenge, and I hold grudges like a mother fucker and forget NOTHING, what do I do?
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Go read the Dhammapada and chill out nigger
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLkdhbMfASo
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>closure
Think carefully, clearly, like an adult. Ultimately, because of your stance here, the people enter a binary separation:
>you want closure and revenge on their current persona, which is to say that they have done something to bring your ire and are therefore in the wrong; by remaining there, they will not draw you any closure and you will likely end up in a worse scenario
>you want closure and revenge on their persona which has become a thing of the past, and you alone represent the opposite of progress they have made and by extension, progress you have not made for yourself; this makes you the asshole, you'll be the bad guy in social circle connections and you'll be left with two slights against you and no closure for either of them
I don't know, I gave up my high school connections save for (now) two people, more or less. A few date before that but, yeah. I don't regret it; I never really looked back because most of them weren't going to and I knew it.
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