met a girl HOORAYY we tried having sex but I can`t cum handjobs,

>>18567933
Stop thinking about cumming and just enjoy the sex you retard.

If you watch porn constantly and masturbate with a death grip, stop doing that shit too.

>>18567935
of course I enjoy the sex
and im not 13, I know how to fucking masturbate...
its just blue balls are no fun, especially if you knew you could've nutted on my girl`s face and such
idk man ive already tried not watching porn or jacking off for a week beforehand and that shit still doesn't help me.

>>18567935
This

The more you worry, the more it'll take. Firsthand experience this every once in a while. Lucky me my gf has great stamina in bed

are you circumcised?

>>18568028
yes
is that bad? cuz I don't think im gonna be able to un-circumcise myself anytime soon

>>18568060
It's bad, and probably the reason why you can't cum during sex.
Circumcision changes the way a penis functions and feels. Basically you have most of the pleasure stripped away, and none of the gliding motion or normal sensations that usually precede an orgasm. You're probably used to jacking yourself off. Only you know how to activate that hair trigger response to make yourself orgasm and of course another person has no idea how to do that.
You can try growing extra skin on your dick. It works but it's very slow process and won't restore the original erogenous parts.
But yeah don't focus on the orgasm, just do what feels good. Playing with your nipples helps too because it contains some of the same pleasurable nerves found in foreskin.

>>18568096
He's somewhat right. I'm a cutfag, but I've never really had an issue cumming with a chick. But you do have to stop focusing. Thinking too much about what's going on and not just sort of letting yourself enjoy. If you're worried about cumming, you never will. The don't think of a pink elephant conundrum.

Find a fantasy, something you can think about that always turns you on super hard. Think about that towards the end if you need a push over the edge.

When I was 10 I got into a playground accident where one of my nuts was cut off. Good/curse side effect of getting seen back up is I don't cum nearly as much in volume. And I lose sensation after a while even when it's clear I have a raging boner. Ladies love it, but it fucking sucks not coming outside of masturbation. That shit starts arguments like "don't you like it?" And "are you not into me?"

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>>18568427
Fuck dude. I know this feel. Very similar, except they were able to save my testi.

And by god, the stupid arguments don't fucking help.