I need some medifag help
I'm 18, last night I had sex for the first time but I fucked it up because I had trouble keeping hard. It took me too long to get hard, and by the time I was completely hard I was already about to cum.
>inb4 nervous
I'm just not a nervous person in general and wasn't nervous here.
>>18565613
Maybe just thinking about it too much caused you to lose wood. Look up performance anxiety. Try to just relax and let yourself enjoy it.
>>18565613
Sex is inherently stressful if you don't know the other persons history , or if they keep up on birth control , what if the conform breaks , how would we deal with this after abortion , fatherhood , just distress before next time
>>18565614
op here
I wouldn't rule it out but that doesn't feel like a real solution. I wasn't thinking about this any different than I think about most things in general. You're asking me to reshape my personality as a whole, which isn't impossible but seems unnecessary.
>>18565617
I wasn't thinking about any of that crap. The bish has an IUD
>>18565633
Lol
>>18565613
Bro, I had the same issue, and ultimately I had to resort to taking the pill to get hard, Amazon UK were giving a trail version for free that I used and it worked, it worked so good that after I came I still was hard but....
I used it around 3 times and I think it's fucked me up because I can't even get hard by watching porn anymore.
Usually I could get hard by looking at porn but now I need to stroke it.
I dunno if that's due to the pills but it happened after taking them, nothing else in my diet changed