How do you get comfortable in approaching women if you're so stifled that you can't even do it once to save your life? What if even alcohol doesn't do the trick and you just freeze the fuck up when you want to walk up to a chick?
In other words: What can I do to give myself a kick up the arse and just do it?
Learn to go after the things you want. If you don't, the cycle repeats... ad finitum
try talking with strangers you don't want to fuck and go from there
parties and approach hammered girls that are as fucked as you are.
>>18560294
If you are talking about changing your behavior then you should reward yourself after you have a chat with a girl.