So I need advice on how to close with girls. I'm really new to putting my self out there and making an effort to talk to new people. From this there have been times where Ive had the opportunity to hook up but I sperged out too hard, had no idea what to say or do to initiate hooking up.
For example this happened last night.
>Coworker came over to smoke
>Already brought a change of clothes, I know she knows whats going down
> We get really high and watch tv
> after a while I ask her if she wants to bring my new puppy into my room to play with it (AKA bang)
> We sit there and eventually both stand up and dont really say anything for 30 seconds
> Couldnt think of anything to say
>first thing that breaks the silence is her saying "so Im gonna go home"
It was bad, it makes me not want to try with girls anymore. Luckily she is still interested and wants to go out to drinking this weekend. WHAT do I do/say to get her back to my apartment. Do I just grab her and be dominant, or ask straight up do you want to makeout?
Like I said Im very new to all this and have almost no experience and any advice would be appreciated.
>TL;DR Sperg needs help talking to girls