Hey guys, first time on this board, need some advice. I have

>>18559629

the easiest way is to do it and not leave your self open for awful ness. hace a friend drive you to her place. you go in, say you need to break up, you list your clear concise reasons, and allow her to say her piece, but you do not engage, even if it seems she brought up a good point, do not engage. just say 'im sorry about that, but my reasons still stand'.

your friends job is to only let you be in there for 10 minutes. at 10 minutes his job is to pul lyou out.

before you get there delete and block her off of all social media, emails, etc.

then when in the car you block her cell phone number so she cannot text or call you anymore. DO NOT ENGAGE.

Out of control how?

>>18559638
Constant partying, unpredictable behaviour, im looking for a long term life partner while she just seems to see me as financial security to fund her immature behaviour

>>18559634
Thanks for advice man, but how effective is just quitting cold turkey, i guess it could be classed as an addiction and i imagine it would be very painful to just cut the line

>>18559648

>how effetive is just quitting cold turkey

in terms of what? shes a girl, not a drug, it boils down to you, if you actually quit cold turkey then shes out of your life, if you go back, then thats your own problem.

its not like 'slowly breaking up with her' is some better option.

>>18559634
This is probably the best piece of advice I've ever read on 4chan. Thank you very much.

>>18559652
I guess you're right, thx