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>work with cute girl
>she's kind of flirty with me
>flirt back and forth
>text a bit every now and then
>either she stops texting or I do
>fairly certain I could ask her out or that she at the very least finds me attractive
Now here's what's throwing me off.
Eye contact:
And we're both guilty of it
It seems as if every time we pass by each other it's as if we're actively trying to avoid each other....as if we're playing some weird game of who will speak up first?? It's weird.
We won't make eye contact or I'll get the courage to try and see that she's actively looking away.
Sometimes when we do make eye contact, she'll look away really fast, and sometimes I do it too, but for me, it's because I'm a bit intimidated by her.
Is she just not into me? Is she intimidated like I am? I mean, sure I can ask her, but I think we're both afraid to make a move.
But of course there also the whole I dont want to date a co-worker thing, and other small "issues" , but that's another thread at another time.
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Well why not just stare back at her with a focus. Stare for a few second and smile at her, look for how she reacts and go from there after. Maybe she's only waiting for you to initiate something. Don't expect much from it because girls like to flirt for fun sometime. It's all part of the life's game.
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>>18558619
I want to say that I've tried, but we made eye contact and she looked away as if she thought that I "caught" her looking, and she never looked back at me. I'm almost 80% sure it's just her nerves, but girls are weird.
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Additional info: we also have had kind if personal talks with each other and seem to genuinely enjoy eaxh other when we are alone at work with the conversations that we do have, we do have a lot in common, and we usually find ea check other throwing glances whenever a certain co-worker does things we find funny.
This feeling of if she likes me isnt so much only based on the fact that she has flirted with me a couple of times .
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Just ask her out
You're both shy
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>>18558594
That's called sexual tension anon. Your role as the guy is to play it cool and act like you're not bothered. If you show confidence and give her strong looks that say "gosh you're so goddamn beautiful" she'll melt in your hands, also things like looking her up and down (at the right moment).
> made eye contact and she looked away
Keep looking. Hold that "you're beautiful" gaze until she looks back and starts to wonder playfully what you're staring at, because she knows and you know. You're letting her think she's got you enchanted, and maybe she does. Don't be embarrassed to let her know she's got your attention through non-verbal communication. Girls think that stuff is hot, because it makes them feel attractive.
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>>18558842
Yeah, nah, I just tried it and she just looks away and tries to focus her attention on something else.
Maybe I'll just be more assertive when we pass by and I'll say hi or something more often.
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