What would you do if you found yourself putting the most effort into a relationship?
Is it something I have to accept? I don't want to end the relationship but I don't want to be taken for granted either.
>>18558332
I heard a piece of advice that said in any relationship the girl should love your more than you love her. If I feel I'm not being met in the middle I tend to drop it.
put less effort in the relationship
>>18558339
>heard a piece of advice that said in any relationship the girl should love your more than you love her.
Those pieces of advice always expect something literally impossible. If you follow them you'd basically never have a relationship.
>>18558332
Try to understand if you really are the one putting most effort in, or if you are just ignoring what your SO is doing for you.
Talk to them about this.
>>18558345
I have brought it up a few times but it feels like it has gotten worse. I'm told they have 'always been that way'. I don't know if I'm being selfish.