>most people have a home
>most men have a girlfriend
>if a person doesn't have a home, it is wrong to blame him for it because you don't know his situation
>if a man doesn't have a girlfriends, it's his fault and he's a defective human being that should roll over and die
Can someone explain this to me?
Getting a girlfriend is easy and anyone can do it. Getting a home is out of the reach of many.
>>18558088
If there are people around you who really tell you this to you. Then you have the wrong people around you.
Other than that, not having a home is really either totally blameable because someone cant get hit shit together or he has been thrown out and has to find a new home whole beeing homeless.
While not having a partner might be a choice, altough as high as the importance of a family might be in a western society, not wanting what the usuall folks might want is in their eyes not understandable. And if you cant get a partner, then you are weird.
Tl dr: Dumb people have their mind made up. Try to avoid those people who think in stereotypes.
>>18558088
A girlfriend doesnt require any financial input. A homeless man could have a gf.
Shit could go wrong and you could lose your residence in one night.
All those thoughts are also not the same person and you are trying to make it seem like the general person cares about if you have a gf rather than them just believing that if you dont have a gf then it is a personal issue and not an external issue.
I've been "homeless" for the past five years.
I've had "girlfriends" for three of those five years (and counting).
There is something clinically wrong with me, but not because people have opinions - and I only got myself to blame for my shitty situation.