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tl;dr
Is it normal for men to be disgusted with the thought of being sexually involved with other men, explicitly when it comes to their penis?
Am I just demonstrating toxic masculinity/straight male privilege?

So, a bit of context. I have a very small social circle. My best friend over the past few years has changed and become transgender, and while learning about their "new" preferences, I recently asked about how they come to grips with being sexually attracted to someone who has a penis (while they also have a penis), when they claim they're only attracted to females.

Their answer was that I needed to get off the red pill and accept that I was the one who had a problem, and that I was abnormal for not being comfortable around other male genitals.

I've seen a few penises in person over the years, mostly in gym showers or boy scouts, and the only time I've ever been uncomfortable (as a straight male) is when I entertain the thought of touching someone else's penis in a sexual manner. This even bothers me when I watch porn, I hate shots where the majority of the scene is focused on the penis.

I don't have anyone else I could ask about this, who could both give me an unbiased answer, and not blab about it and cause drama. Help me /adv/?
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>>18557592
If you truly value your friendship with this person then don't discuss such subjects with them, there's really no need to.

This question doesn't have an answer because sexuality is fucking weird and everyone has their own specific tastes. Move on with your life.
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>>18557592
im hetero and i dont think about penises apart from my own nor do i care who puts what where

you sound like a closethomo
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>>18557592
i think your friend's in the wrong. just because you don't like penis doesn't mean you're "redpilled"
i'm a male, i think id consider myself straight. i've had a couple instances of "i would kiss that guy" and i like some platonic male physical affection every so often. but i'm not at all attracted to the idea of interacting with any dick that's not mine.
i don't believe that anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay, but it's more than ok for you to not be attracted to certain genitals. maybe its social conditioning, who knows. but if you're fine with how you are then why does it matter to your friend
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>>18557592
You not being attracted, or even being repulsed by, penises is completely acceptable. As long as you're not trying to push your fears onto your friend, there's no issue.

Honestly, from what little you posted your friend sounds a bit like an unsympathetic dick. Trying to twist your sexual preferences as a political issue is bullshit.

I'm a bi man, so dicks don't bug me, but everyone has there limits and you gotta respect them. You do you m8, there's nothing to be ashamed of with that.
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>>18557592
First off I should state that I am not a /pol/tard, but actually left wing and on the liberal side of politics myself, so I can be fairly unbiased here. (Call me a social democrat if you need to figure a label for my views).

I do not believe in persecuting trans people, but the whole trans issue is overblown and hugely a pseudo problem. When your trans friend is being a douche and saying that you are abnormal for being disgusted by dicks, he is making a mistake, since clearly, his preference and thoughts are what's abnormal. LGBT community is never above something like few percentages in every country you look at, they are called a minority for a reason.

You really don't have to change yourself to be "more tolerant" or even buy into the SJW crap. Hell, I don't like SJW's one bit or their identity politics crap, but equally as much, if not more, I hate right wingers, who can also be very in your face about their "muh freedums" slogans just like SJW's do.

Solution for you is to grow some backbone and tell your trans friend that yes, as a straight man you are uncomfortable about dicks, and he has no right to lecture you on what you should like or not, as long as you don't lecture the trans friend on how they should be or what they should like. Good luck OP!
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>>18557606
it's not that I overly care about them, im mostly neutral on it, it's just when I think about being sexually involved with them, I get disgusted and lose interest.

>>18557611
I am happy with how I am, it just came so far from left field that I didnt know what to think. I don't know if I just assumed how I felt was normal, or if I was the abnormal one, and wanted some reassurance. i've also had "i would kiss the guy" moments, but they are short and far between

>>18557612
it's actually the opposite, im not so much trying to push my ideologies, but i find it hard to say my gut feelings are wrong.

>>18557615
Thank you for your encouragement.
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>>18557592
>friend straight up calls you a normal for asking a question
I really don't think that they're your friend
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