am I the only one that finds hetero porn to be extremely degrading

No I find missionary position for a purposes other than procreation disgusting or any other position

Is this how we're gonna do it now?

No. Completely agree. Maybe it's just because BDSM in general isn't really my thing but the slapping cocks in her face, choking, name calling, spitting, facefucking and facials are off putting to me as well.

>>18556323
Well ya. If you want non degrading then watch that "female safe" porn or amateur porn where it's a static camera of some dude going to town on his girlfriend until he cums inside her. Male power fantasies are the core of porn. I sure as shit like to envision myself fucking the ever living shit out of a beautiful tight blonde girl and then cumming on her tits and mouth. Why the fuck wouldn't I? In real life my girlfriend might not like cum or doesn't like certain positions or whatever. In porn, you get exactly what you want. There's nothing wrong with that.

>>18556323
Less so than chick flicks are degrading towards men.

Probably not but I find nothing wrong with porn. Gets me off just fine, only thing I think is not "female friendly" is the fucking 50 minute blowjob compared to the 10 minutes of actual sex.

>>18556323
>>18556332
This to a lesser degree. Like facials and even really tough BDSM can be fun, e.g. my girlfriend tells me facials make her feel sexy. But when it's some woman on video who's had the living crap fucked out of her, painal, slapping, uncomfortable positions, all that, and they have this miserable look on their face, that is a turn off like 90% of the time. Just too REAL what with sex trafficking and war rape in the 3rd world and all that shit you see on the news you know?
Even the most degrading sex act can be fun and not have anyone lose actual human dignity, but when you're not there and you can't talk and see if there's pain on one party's part, that's where it gets ugly to me.

>>18556429
Yeah it's the same for me. I really dislike it when the girls get slapped in the face, the dude sticks his fingers down her throat, her tits get slapped around hard, etc. Obviously some girls and guys are into that but I'm not. I don't want to beat up and hurt the girl I'm pounding. Her pussy is already getting it hard enough as it is.

Nope.

>>18556355
Are you retarded? Chick flicks don't display physical abuse of men.

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Can someone explain the appeal of BDSM to me? The appeal of getting raped? I don't get it.

>>18556453
You're right they're much more subtle about it. They abuse them in other ways like buying the mc girl stuff, or always taking her on dates, or doing something ridiculously outlandish that would jeopardize his well being all for her. Female abuse is all about social and mental abuse. Men just want that hole between a woman's legs and those fleshy bumps on their chest.

>>18556323
It depends on the video.
That's like saying that all movies are action movies.
Most porn movies are just two people having sex while the girl says things that might be embarrassing but that's about it.
The majority of porn is amateur porn and most pro porn are actresses who have been doing it for such a long time that it's just acting for them.

Today I was watching tv and there's Fast and Furious, i found that way more degrading than any porn I've seen.

>>18556323
Ever seen lesbian porn? There's usually one dominant one that abuses the shit out of the other. It makes sense considering lesbian couples have the highest domestic abuse ranking, so it's realistic.

>>18556462
BDSM isn't the same as rape.

>>18556503
>BDSM isn't the same as rape.
I never implied that.

>>18556462
It's about domination over another person ergo master / slave relationships lots of people like giving power to others

>>18556512
>lots of people like giving power to others
What?!

>>18556462
I actually know a girl who has rape fantasies.
>>18556509
He probably didn't realize it was two questions and not just one question rephrased twice.

>>18556509
Both have a common enough answer. It's pretty much being dominated, it's just a left over from the whole "men hunt and take what they want" thing. Society may have changed but instincts like that are still heavily ingrained in us.

I've honestly not yet met a woman that wasn't into being dominated (though at varying degrees of dominated obviously).

>>18556462
Not sure if I can, it's hard to explain. I just love the sexual thrill of the primal instincts men have to fuck me.
I have a rape kink too, however the best way I can describe it is as a coping mechanism. I was raped as a kid so during puberty I dealt with that by twisting it in my mind to have been a good/normal thing. Only way I could have come to terms with sex without killing myself. I've since dealt with it in more healthy ways, that was just the placeholder coping mechanism until I could work up the courage and effort to actually overcome it. But it still kinda stuck with me. I still get off to fantasy scenarios of rape.