How do I become more emotionally "ready" for a relationship?

>>18554885
>How do I become more emotionally "ready" for a relationship? I'm a male, and whenever I've been broken up with, I'm told I'm a great guy and special, but that I'm not yet ready for anything emotionally serious, but I'd like to be.

Sounds like women weaving lies for their own continence. No one will be able to tell you what that means.

>>18554885
What insecurities do you have? Of the /r9k/ variety?

>>18554948
I don't browse /r9k/. I'm able to obtain a gf, hold a job and progress, have friends and hobbies. I don't think my looks are bad at all but I know could still be doing better there. I guess I'm insecure of where I generally am in life and the possibility that I will never be happy with where I go.

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Not OP.

I've been broken up with because of my general indecisiveness and being somewhat untrustworthy, as I suppose. The exact reason I was told is that she doesn't feel love anymore. It fucked me up, yet at least it was somewhat honest. She told me at the beginning of relationship if I don't change then she'll sooner or later break up with me. So, it happened. Also, I had no experience whatsoever and I will try to return her, even if everything goes fucked up.

I am full of insecurity about my lack of humor, I am not an easy-going person. I could mumble about lots of different things but into humor? Never. Drives me insane.