Is living with a married man ever a good idea if they are planning

no lol

if you are a whore with a married man than i hope you do live with the shitstain and share the faith of the ex wife, goddamn retarded whores

>>18554173
Let him finalize the divorce papers first before moving in together, otherwise it's a waste of your time. If not, you'll have to deal with him AND his ex if doesn't.

Well I was kinda hoping to hear from someone with experience... I fell for the wrong person completely I would of never in my life even think about dating a man who is married or has a gf but it happened

Where I live, a couple has to have separated for two years before they can legally divorce. Based on that timeline it's a bad idea, since I can't see how he'd get over his marriage, meet someone new and be with them long enough to live with them within two years.

>>18554228
Everything he is putting his current wife through will happen to you And you have a front row seat to the action and are not running. You deserve everything you get.

>>18554173
If he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you.

Even if you're not cheating with him, the principle remains.

I don't even know why I bothered asking I know what the truth is I just thought I ask anyway but I have nothing but hate and doubt and it has ruined any thought of me ever getting married or having faith in a partner. I am beyond repairable for any relationship. I would rather live my life being single then giving my heart to someone to hurt it. I am going to crawl back in my shell now and hope that any emotional side to me numbs.

>>18554173
If your married guy was a decent guy and truly loved you he would finalize the divorce before even suggesting you cohabit with him. What he wants is to remain married (it could be to avoid the legal and financial difficulties, there are children involved, or residual feelings for his wife or he knows the relationship with his gf probably won't last) and live with his girlfriend without any real commitment or risk. Been there OP

>>18554173
>they are planning on a divorce


There's the magic words. If they are divorced, or in the midst of the legalities of a divorce, you might take a chance.

but "planning" has a way of not ever becoming "getting"