Probably fucked up bad. But whatever. So I've been with

>>18553834
You didn't fuck up, you just forgot the basic rule that girls will always have X number of random orbiters, typically clingy dudes they met briefly, probably a long time ago, who still go on about hoping to get with her, but she's hardly interested in them, I guarantee.

Don't confront it to her unless there is physical evidence of her meeting a guy, nobody likes someone else reading their texts, even if it's their partner.

>>18553834
>And I see that he messaged me a while back

>messaged me

>me

>>18554075
I typed it out last night as fast as I could so I didn't realize ant typos. My bad anon.

>>18553834
pretty bad

the girl chosed to be with you and you still are afraid, thats worse than looking through her texts
this is the same as if you chopped off your own balls infront of her

>>18553867
I partially agree anon some of the guys are orbiters that never had a shot if she was in a relationship or not but they are not the majority of her male bench. There is no real benefit to a woman to have a no shot orbiter but there is to having guys circling that will be your replacement. Every woman has them. Perhaps they knew them before you and they almost nailed it or an ex lover or its a guy she just met she wants to keep around and see where it goes.

>>18553834
You went over the line blocking them but just tell her what you told us here and sorry but your impulse was to block them believing thats what she would do but forgot. Tell her she can always unblock them.