So, my wife died and we had been married for 12 years. I'm

The good women are not single in their 30s

there is a reason why MGTOW exists. But hey you're bound to find a good fit eventually. I know plenty of girls that are successful, on a good path to a bright future, and are just flat out "too good" for me, and they have higher standards wanting a guy that makes more money/looks better. Each generation is different and while there is a sort of degradation factor, AKA "western society collapsing" there are still good girls out there, just a bit more uncommon I would say.

Do what you enjoy doing and do it well.

Keep yourself clean and keep your eyes peeled.

Do everything in your power (that doesn't involve anyone else) to make yourself happy, and there's a strong chance you'll end up making friends.

Friends are the type of people you get in a relationship with.

Firstly, my greatest condolences. Secondly, the reason you're meeting so many nut jobs I'm assuming is that you met them online. Casting a bigger net means a greater chance if catching garbage too. I would recommend you look somewhere that has a probability of having a solid woman. Maybe church? Take a course at your community college. Basically look anywhere that people improve themselves.

>>18553547
Go younger. Shoot for 25-27.

It's still hard even at that age bracket, but better than the 30s bracket. Speaking from experience.

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>>18553556
Sadly I'm inclined to agree

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>>18553571
Good advice, thanks.