If you didn't have sex or date anyone in high schoor and

>>18553518
I was a virgin till after high school. I met a girl who was into me and we ended up together for a few years. My previous experience didn't really come up, but when it did I lied about it and seemingly passed as a nonvirgin in her eyes. I was insecure I guess, but had the lovely shield called "fake it till you make it".

I'm not telling you to lie but if you do, just take your time and don't make a big deal about it if you get anywhere. Being relaxed exudes experience, which makes girls receptive, which makes you more confident in what you're doing.

Got it thanks, yeah i can talk to girls fine but i can't even imagine a realistic setting in which i get a girl to sleep with me

>>18553518
Lost my virginity at 21 to my 20yr old gf at the time who was also a virgin. We were together for 5 years before breaking up this May.

Just stay with it brobit.

>>18553591
So maybe you're kind of like me where getting some action never seemed reachable because you had discouraging parents or a lack of privacy, and that solidified your inability to have intimate experiences and learn from them.

The only solution to that is to have an active social life outside of just looking for tail. That presents much potential to meet new people and maybe some opportunity for sex if you're in the right place at the right time. Looking back, that's what got me involved with this chick. I had a rich friend who was basically a player, his parents were left the house to him from time to time. And one day he was like "I'm chillin' with this chick, she wants to bring her friend, come by so we can kind of set the stage here wink wink"