Every single time I get in a relationship I end up being a dick to the other person. I don't even plan on it, it just happens. how do I stop?
pic possibly related. lol
Why the fuck is she naked?
>>18553236
Not really sure how to put this... just don't. The only way you can stop being a dick is by not being a dick. Stop being lazy and asking for advice and whatnot and just actively try to be nice. If you care enough/are committed enough you will be fine.
>>18553236
If pic is related my advice for you is forfeit pay the court a fine for your stolen goods or pay with your blood
>>18553236
Also people start to harbor resentment when they don't share their feelings or communicate.
I'm assuming that the relationships you have had didnt have the strongest communication.
I can imagine this scenario:
>gf does something that irks you
Instead of talking to her and telling her your issue you keep it quiet and ignore it until 6 months into the relationship, then you snap and call her out on it. Now she just thinks you're being a dick but really this has been welling up inside of you because you can't communicate for some reason.
Correct me if I'm wrong I'm doing a lot of assuming here
am I wrong?