In highschool I got my first gf. A genuine 10/10. She now works

>>18552075

Had a similar to issue. Not sure I'd be comfortable saying she was a 10/10 but objectively I'd expect most to rate her 9+

Fucked a few average looking girls off Tinder (like 6-7 if we're still using ratings?) and didn't really feel good about it, then once I came across a slightly more attractive girl who was interested in me, and had a decent personality, after a couple of dates I found myself no longer feeling dead and unenthusiastic and was actually really into her. I was seriously worried I'd be a joyless cunt forever, never interested in any girl even remotely interested in me, but I eventually was cured.

I don't know if I'd necessarily recommend doing that to everyone, though. If you think you'd seriously regret casually fucking a girl you're not very interested in, probably don't do that

Once you love someone and are superattracted to them - not because of their perfect proportions but because of how they look at you and their smell and their smile and how interesting you find their company and how kind they are to you - then it doesn't matter whether they're objectively a model or not.

Hell, chances are this ex of yours might have been quite pretty but not AS pretty as you found her to be. And even if she was, that's not that relevant. The very fact that you don't rave about her personality or her company means you still have a lot of untapped potential to discover with other women.

When people say to lower standards, they don't mean that you just have to settle for someone you don't actually like. They mostly mean that you are selling yourself short by only focussing on people you are crazy about just from looking at them once or twice.

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>>18552119

I guess that's true. When you get along well with people they always look more attractive. I'll try to make mor efforts in getting to know girls

>>18552075

girls dont really care for looks mate. To them self esteem is the most desireable trait in a man.

You can be ugliest fucker on the planet but if you have a lot of self esteem they will kill each other to win your intrest.

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>>18552211
>>girls dont care for looks

>>18552211
>>Being this delusional

>>18552285
>>18552341

looks can help you but without self esteem looks worth is a bucket of crap.

I take it she was thicc in both departments?

>>18552361

More like tall and thin with a really pretty face

>>18552386
So 6/10.