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why the fuck am i so lonely.
Everywhere i look, i see young couples together, or older couples with a zillion little children running around. Everyone seems so happy and together. Why the fuck can't i find someone to be with?
Im 31 / male
people always tell me that i'm extra-ordinarily attractive.
I'm fit and well put together. I'm active, drive a nice 2017, fully loaded pickup truck, I'm intelligent, have a decent job making 75/k a year and I still cant land a solid relationship. The only women that seem to want any part of me are widowed/divorced women, in their early to late 40s with multiple kids, who are all crazy as fuck and emotional wrecks. I try to go to bars and talk to girls, but they all seem cold and snobbish so I just sit there, drinking myself into oblivion. I can't even keep platonic friendships and even my male friends have seemed to abandoned me. What the fuck is wrong with me
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I don't know anon. But I'm right there with you. I've tried so hard to find someone (I did once but I fucked it up and didn't man up and make a move) but every girl I meet is just so...boring. I've tried Tinder, OkCupid, bars and I just can't genuinely connect with anyone. I don't get it. Is the secret to falling in love just putting aside compatibility and just settling down with someone you kind of tolerate?
My friends are distant, literally and metaphorically, and I don't even really care to keep it up with them. I just get drunk and play video games and forget the world around me. It numbs the pain I guess.
The worst part is sometimes someone will come along and make me think I have a chance. And I'll get completely infatuated and wrapped up in them, and when they inevitably move on I'm a destroyed emotional fucking mess.
I hate my brain. I don't know what to do either. At least you have a well paying job.
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>>18549567
I always did better before I had a decent job and goals. Girls are attracted to losers
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>>18549539
You have to stop looking. Girls can smell desperation. Focus on setting some short term goals for your career and body. Hang with your friends so you look part of a social group.
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One of the crushing parts about adulthood is when the people you enjoy ghost you the moment they no longer have to continually associate with you and you're left figuring out why.
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>>18550091
Pretty much exactly this
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>>18549539
Where do you live anon? Im a feggit but maybe you want a successful bf to compliment your success?
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