Should I be worried? I'm a black femanon and I have a crush

>>18549214
>I'm worried about him fetishizing me

I don't understand why this is a problem.

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>>18549214

> I'm a black femanon

0/10

>>18549214
At the end of the day, it's the same as any other relationship:
>If he takes a genuine interest in your life and your well-being, if you spend time together talking, going places, doing non-sexual things, then he really likes you
>If you don't have good conversations, and he only hits you up when he wants to fuck, then you're just a sex object to him

There is one guy that is attracted to me. Im worrying about him beeing attracted to me.

A fetish is beeing attracted to something. Even the most vanilla things, like being into some normal girl is a fetish on some level. Geez

>>18549428
I'm torn. On one hand, a white man should never bred with a black woman, but I understand that black males tend to be violent, abusive, poor, and ugly. It's like expecting a rat to willingly drown itself so that it doesn't infect people.

>>18549372
He doesn't like me, he likes my skin color if he's fetishizing me

>>18549435

>I'm torn.

No, you're just racist and dumb.

>>18549435
Your first comment is something that literally hitler would say but color around. Color of skin or hair is just a trait that attract people. Like, i like black women and white women, but black women shine some form of majesty or something. But you are a racist bitch so i dont like you aswell. Its not even a fetish, its just attraction. Hair color, skin color, figure or whatever. In the end i wouldn't want you fuck aswell but im still attracted to black women..

>>18549214
sorry Anoniqua, you're going to be fetishized by guys who "dig" black girls. That doesn't mean he wont like you though. At least give him a chance. This way you both have fun and you get to see if he's bf material or not. If he only likes you for your color, leave and find someone who likes *you.* What's the harm in a quick fling?

good luck, have fun, wear a rubber!

>>18549214

>Help, I have a crush and apparently I'm exactly their type.

Everyone has their own shit that they find attractive mate.

Shit. Are you fetishising him because he's white?
Are you fetishing him because he's male, even?
Because he's an adult?

Where do you draw the lines betwen "fetishising" and simply being attracted to someone?

Shit, you gotta stop reading the magazines, talking to those girls with funny hair colours of listening to professors at university (because lets face it, these days they're all just marketers masquerading as educators. Filling you with identity based anxiety so they can sell you some confirmation bias... fuck 'em).

As for not liking white girls. Plenty of reasons not to, and not simply out of looks. I say this as a white guy.

Actually the most off-putting thing about them is exactly this kind of mentality. Far too many of them with funny colours in their hair listening to professors tell them who to hate and why.

Shit. I bet you started thinking like this because you're actually at university too.
They train you up to act like a white girl, and you never even think about the fact that white men never seem to be as bold as black or Asian men in their approach towards women, or why it happens (white girls are hostile as fuck).

>>18549443
So? Almost no guy likes a bitch for her personality. Men are visual creatures so stop this whole "I'm a strong woman past my sex appeal" bullshit. You're a piece of ass until a man decides otherwise.

>>18549435
You are probably more racist than every white person you might have been met before, but who am i white boy to tell you this, since you know it better anyway.

>>18549435
Lol what a loser

>>18549443
>I'm a women and I fear that he might be fetishizing me because he's straight

See how stupid that sounds? That's you

Niggers are never happy tho, they have to problematize everything

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>>18549543

>>>/pol/

>>18549214
See how these white boys talk to you. That's what you want, pathetic.

>>18549214
> I'm worried about him fetishizing me.
Hi, straight male here. We want to fuck anything that moves and many things that do not. Your color/size/shape/autism/religion/pride/randomCategoryX do not matter. We simply want pussy. If you have pussy, you qualify. Whatever "fetishize" means, we just want pussy.

>>18549214
> White guys doesn't like black girls
O M G he's a raycist!
>White guy likes black girls
O M G he's fetishizing me!

>>18549435
go home /pol/ you're drunk

>>18549443
All sexual attraction is fetishistic on some level. Eventually you'll have to see if there's more to this relationship than sexual attraction.

But him being attracted to you isn't a bad thing, don't be ridiculous.

>>18550092

I don't know if you're being ironically stupid or if you actually don't think that "fuck a black girl" is a box that some white guys like to check off just for the sake of doing it. I'm a person of a certain ethnicity myself and I get "omg I've never had sex with one of you before" all of the time. Its actually really frustrating when trying to tell whether a relationship actually has some kind of genuine basis or if I'm just an object for a girl to fulfill some kind of ethnic sex fantasy of hers. I'm a guy so, naturally, I don't mind being used like this sometimes but from what I've heard from women, especially ones who are a highly selective with their sexual partners, it can be a pain.

>>18549435
>People calling a realist a racist
DON'T TALK ABOUT THE FACTS, DAS RACISS!!!!

>>18550107
>Black guy gets no sex because a white woman doesn't want to have sex with a black guy
Damn dude fuck that racist shit.
>Black guy gets sex because a white woman wants to have sex with a black guy
(thinking emoji) How can I still make this about her being racist?

>>18549443
>fetishizing
We fetishize you because you have a pussy. As soon as robots take that from you we'll just live with our friends forever

I have a crush on a white guy. The other day I noticed him wearing a Jordan hoodie and he mentioned to me that he plays basketball. He also has a massive cock. Is he just Tyrone in whiteface?

>>18550133

I never called anyone racist. I'm not sure what you're talking about but it surely isn't related to anything I actually said. I'm just going to assume you're not any type of person of color or else you'd know the kind of tokenism I'm talking about, where people immediately put value to the race aspect of a relationship with you instead of who you are as a person. You keep wanting to make this conversation about racism and I'm not sure why. I also don't automatically assume anyone who doesn't want to have sex with a because they're black is racist. It really depends on the reason, doesn't it?

I'm just going to chalk this up to you not being a minority therefore not really having any personal experience or insight into the social phenomenon I'm talking about. It has nothing to do with mean ol evil racists or a victim complex, its just the things you experience as a minority.

Also, 6/10 for actually getting me to type out a response as though you were being serious.

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>>18550121
This. Don't listen to these obviously white men who are likely virgins, OP.
Some men will fetishize you, but don't urge the relationship in that direction if you aren't comfortable with it / want the relationship to transcend mere sexual attraction.
black femanon to black femanon you can only really find this out thru taking the chance with him. he can still find your skin color, as a feature, attractive. However, if he can only get off to raceplay in bed, or coerces you into talking about yourself or him in terms of color in bed all the time, drop him or tell him you are uncomfortable up front.
if he cares about you as more than pussy, HE will at some point begin starting conversations with YOU about race and politics because he actually gives a shit.


as far as finding out one way or the other, if he brags about liking black women specifically, NOT "ebony porn" don't be afraid to ask why. some men expect you to find "o yea look at me i like black girls" as an immediate compliment because they assume we must be that desperate for attention; they don't expect being asked about why and they don't really have a reason. they say that because that's the only way they know how to tell a black girl they find her attractive, or to flatter her, which is pretty sad.
tldr; it could be 1) fetish
2) he's never been in a serious relationship with a black woman before but finds them attractive. yet, he is never able to be with them nonsexually bc neither party has the vocabulary to not sound like an essentialist prick in this political climate.

>>18550092
"liking black girls" without further context is ambiguous, it is neither obviously racist nor obviously non-racist. how many girls do you hit on and then promptly explain your attraction to them as because of a pornstar you watch? do you like white girls because "sasha grey"? and if you told them that, could they logically deduce you like them personally ALSO because sasha grey?

>>18549443
The difference will be obvious. If he's just fetishizing you, he won't like you, he'll like the concept you represent by being black. You'll probably be able to tell by what he says about you.

I like Cenobites, does that count?

>>18550423
But Cenobites are white.

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>>18550342
>>18550375
>You better like dark chocolate whitey, otherwise we'll call the thought police on you
>But if you do say you like dark chocolate you're some fucked up fetishistic asshole

>>18549214

Unfortunately, you're gonna have to talk to him. He's either gonna do it or he won't, and that's completely irreverent of your input in the matter.

>>18549443
>people shouldn't date people they find attractive

>>18549494
Seconding that white girls are trash.

My sister is like the ambassador for all white girls and I can't stand talking to her for more than 5 seconds.

>>18549214
> help, I don't want my crush to like me

White girls are trash.
Mexican girls are trash.
Black girls are trash.
Asian girls are trash.

In America. American culture is the problem, it produces the worst people possible. This problem is exacerbated in California, this state breeds the absolute shittiest people in the world.

>>18549214
>he's saying in public he likes ebony porn

You know that's a red flag right? Like a giant fucking soviet banner. It's time to move on.

>>18550532
This is literally not that hard. You can like black girls alongside all other girls without fetishizing any particular one race.

>>18550080
Um, I don't think that's true because white guys are usually not into black girls. This guy is not sexually attracted to his own race. It's weird.

>>18549552
Back to tumblr with you.

>>18549458
> Your first comment is something that literally hitler would say but color around.
That's pretty flattering. Hitler was a very well spoken guy.

>Like, i like black women and white women, but black women shine some form of majesty or something.
Oh, do black women shine once you remove their dark, muddy coat? I wasn't aware.

Nobody likes black women. Sorry
>>18551338
>((((artist)))
>wrote a shitty book
>killed himself

>>18551414
he managed to rid the world of roughly four million of the most vile beings in the entire world. That's a gain in my book.

>>18550775
Well said

>>18550775
You forgot Native American girls.

How many of these 'black femanon' threads can we have within the space of 24 hours? What is going? The arrival of the internet in Africa or something?
Look miss, you've got yourself a white (presumably) boyfriend and he loves you in some way or other, even if it isn't for who you are dep down inside. Are you so insecure that you have to come on here complaining? Don't you think that this attraction is at the very least something above and beyond what most of the plebs on here will get to experience?
Now bugger off, thanks.

>>18549214
>there's a straight guy who says he doesnt like dick and that he likes pussy
>im worried about him fetishizing my pussy

>>18550777
He said it over text.

>>18551825

I think >>18550107 >>18550375 >>18550584
and especially
>>18550408

gave you all the advice you need. Texting you that he's into ebony porn and doesn't like white girls is pretty fucking goofy and a red flag but it's also reasonably likely he just thought that'd be something you'd enjoy hearing. Either way, you should be able to figure out what's up within a handful of intimate or flirty conversations.

Why do you even care as long as you're getting the good dick? Where on the obscure spectrum between lust and fetish his attraction to you happens to fall isn't important, so long as he's hard, large, and giving you orgasms. Obsessing over stupid shit like tumblr/reddit buzzwords just makes you less happy than you could be if you thought about getting more dick.

>>18551750
Native American girls are pure princesses.

He didnt compliment or flirt. Just said he likes ebony porn.
You're a young woman, you don't learn til after divorce or become a single mother. Kudos to him for not being in the friend zone. Just fuck him and call it a day, stupid.

>>18549450
>Falling for bait
>Calling other people dumb