When I was younger, I dreamed of growing older, filling out,

>>18548684

quality over quantity. I'm not staying to stay with the girl but you should do what feels right.

>>18548694
>>18548694
I feel like the loudest voice in my head is currently the one that says to stay with her. I've been with her for almost 10 months without breaking up or "taking breaks" so it must be strong.

I'm just scared because, to another part of me, leaving her "feels right" too. Every day is a battle between those two parts.

>>18548708
You've got a good girl by your side and a bad case of grass-is-greener syndrome. You take for granted that you could get with a "variety of women" and that it would be fulfilling. Perhaps you need something else in your life and switching girls isn't the answer.

>>18548726
>>18548726
This is what I believe too. It's so relieved to hear someone else say it, because I've never talked to anyone about this and have been letting it simmer in my head for months.

We really hate where we're living and we're currently saving up to move to another city and get a place together. We're talking about saving up to get a property and maybe start a family. I'm also planning on starting a different career and also finally starting that band, but doing it for the music and not for the partying/pussy/drugs. I think there's a chance that could be my "something else."

Will it be the right answer? I'm not sure, as I can't tell the future, but there's only one way to find out. Thank you anon.

>tv and ads told me that I have to be a chad and pump n dump lots of bar sluts before I can "settle down"
>better follow their advice and leave this cute, loyal, supportive girl for some random slags I haven't even met yet

you realize how insane this sounds right?

If you like the girl, stay with her. Besides, it's probably more fun to be married swingers in your 50s than an insecure bachelor trying to get laid in his 20s lol

>>18548756
I know how insane it sounds. My coping mechanism is to separate myself from these urges and think of them as a parasite that entered my brain from Hollywood and my degenerate public school upbringing.

I just wish the urges would go away because the stress is having noticeable physical effects on my body and the thought of hurting her keeps me awake at night. She's so fragile.

>>18548684
Grass is always greener. Just stick with the girl until you die or fall out of love.

>>18548726
>>18548983
"Grass is greener" seems to be a recurring theme.

>>18548684
Guy I've fucked hot women and prostitutes and they both feel the same - it's fun but not life. The "rock-star" dream is something many men have, but you might as well play it safe until you at least upgrade from touring in a shitty bus with a roadie that farts constantly in his sleep. You probably can only play base you faggot.

Enjoy finding a good girl early in life and play metal on Rocksmith for pretend

>>18549452
I'm a pretty solid songwriter and singer. I want to play psychedelic rock when I get to my new city and have a steady income (I'm a student now).

I can still do that while being with my girlfriend. I've always cared deeply about the actual music, and the other frivolous stuff is becoming less and less important as I get older.