I fucked up with a guy friend and I don't know how to get

I mean you literally have only one option

You already fucked this by telling him you're into him. If you want to figure things out you have two options:

>tell him the COMPLETE truth, including your relationship with the online dude and how you're confused with everything, and hopes (he probably will) he understand and figure out things for himself as well

or

>realize that what you feel for your guy friend might actually be love and what you feel for the other guy might probably be just a temporary feeling

I mean the second option is just what I'm thinking here. It really looks like you care about your guy friend way more a friendly thot would, so maybe that's love. And we all know love is quite rare to find.


Anyways, something like that happened to me a few months ago and despite me getting the "bad ending", I moved on and still talk to the girl I liked. So I kinda get how the guy might feel whenever whatever happens

>>18546704
I don't think I love him. Not like that. He may be physically attractive to me, but his behavior is a big turn off. I'm a really submissive sort of person, but he told me once that the kind of girl he's into is one that takes charge. He's also less intelligent than me, and I usually just laugh at his jokes to be polite. It gets a little tiring.

But my previously mentioned bestie left town and ghosted me for a year, and I have seldom few friends. I also have known this guy for a very long time, we actually would have met in elementary school. I'm a friend of his older sister and their whole family, so I don't really want to tread on his feelings too much.

I thought about telling him everything, but it's a difficult thing to really talk about. My relationship with this guy online has been largely sexual in nature, and I don't really want to lose respect over it. I actually tried to tell him, but I couldn't get things out.

>>18546692
What's that?

Only a virign would be that hung up on someone they'd never even met. I say this as someone who did the same thing.

Just go with the flow, stop worrying.

>>18546730
I'm going to meet him soon though. We've already decided to meet up.

I don't get why everything has to happen all at once.

Both men want your virginity...

>>18546668
Threesom

You probably don't like the guy online, hate to break that to you, but people are not the same person online as they are in person. Everyone has little quirks that youll notice in real life, so I wouldn't put your eggs in that basket. If you don't have feelings for him, just say it straight up, but you probably do, regarding your behavior, I would sit on it, and if that's truly the conclusion you believe, then tell him, but you'll probably lose him as a friend, such is life

>>18546973
I really do. It's stupid, and maybe it won't last, but I feel a million times more for the guy I met online than I do for my friend. I don't know why. The heart wants what it wants, I guess.

Don't say or do anything official. Wait to meet the online guy and see what happens. If you don't feel the same way for him as you did online, think it over and decide whether or not to go with the guy friend.
You're not in an official relationship with the guy friend, and if he misses out on you, it's sort of his fault for not noticing you before, anyway.

>>18547391
Arg, still weeks away. This has been the approach I've been going for, but guy friend has been coming on a little strong lately. It's been hard to kind of brush him off and keep in neutral with him when he's sending me a million texts a day. I can't deny that I'm not a little bitter that now, after all this time, he's started to come around to me. I can't shake the feeling that he still doesn't see me as a woman, just as a convinent way to get his dick wet that he never noticed before.