So /adv/ I'm at a bit of a decision here
>About 8 months ago
>Work with this girl
>Click really well, start seeing each other and eventually officially dating, she officially asked me to start dating
>Week into dating she says shes getting back together with her ex
>have a shitty time of it but get over it
>Now: girl is still acting physically flirty with me, tho still with bf
>Coworkers keep telling me to ask her out again
>They know the history
Now am I wrong in thinking that if she really wanted to be with me she would've? Or am I just being a pussy and not wanting to make that leap? If I'm being honest I do think we would work well together.
Murder-suicide is the only option.
If she's still flirting with you while having a boyfriend then she might be trying to have an affair with you. Your co-workers sound like they don't fully know the situation, and even if they did why would they support her dating both you and her current boyfriend?
>>18546289
I mean I have a FWB at the moment so I'm not really in for the whole affair angle otherwise I would've just went for it. They know pretty much all of it, they were there in the middle of it happening plus I confided in them some shit about it; theyre not so much thinking her dating both of us, they seem to think we're so perfect for each other and she likes me enough that if I just step up and ask her to start dating again she'd dump her boyfriend for me.
I mean that's bullshit right? If she really felt that way she wouldn't have cut things off...
>>18546273
Agree, only option.
>>18546273
>>18546340
So I got 2 votes for murder-suicide.. I guess I'm going for it
>>18546351
Let us know how it goes