I'm at a loss how to continue with myself at this point. I've graduated college and started my "Successful" life.
Relationship problems first, I just have no fucking clue how to meet people now. I live in greater metro detroit, but shit area. So no walking about to meet anybody without being concerned with the ghettos (white boi). None of my college friends are particularly outgoing, and all dudes cause stem. Can't into tinder/bumble/etc with my utter lack of any social presence (no pics of me in group settings, just a fucking loner essentially). Recently broke up with GF ~2 months ago (officially at least... We hadn't seen each other in months at a time, so was dead for awhile before )
Also, all my old hobbies just don't entertain me now. I can't into vidya mindlessly anymore for hours. Is this just growing up, or some underlying issue?
I feel like I lack purpose or reason. to some extent I just want to be included in something, but nobody is there to include me. What the fuck do I do?
>>18544480
Meetme, badoo, okcupid, tinder, facebook, fetlife, discord or simply social events you hate.
Ever been to
Opera
Comedy stand up
Concert
Various interest gathering
Museum
Nigger ghetto
Park
Or any event your city makes each week? Look at your city pages and go to anything what is happening. Talk to any ladies there.
And congratulations on growing up from games. I wish it happened to me too, but still nothing.
>>18544490
I think my biggest hiccup is I have nothing else to talk about.
I feel like an empty slate
>>18544576
Nah. You just need to learn how to talk about nothing.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
If you have ability to shitpost, you have ability to have convo easily.