My gf says this to me, we don't text super often but when we hang out it's pretty cool. Is this good/bad? I don't really know. I get the whole "you're really kind" thing a lot
>>18543759
Bump
>>18543759
Some people just don't like texting
Be glad you're with a girl who isn't staring at her phone 24/7 in that case
>>18543793
I'm just worried it's her way of saying I'm too much.
>>18543797
I would not worry about it. If it was really an issue with her she would find a better way of conveying that.
Just be glad you can charm a girl so hard she doesn't know what to think.
>>18543830
Hopefully you're right
>>18543759
Ah Le guarded gf. Just be patient and kind. Some previous relations must have made her this way just don't take advantage of her kindness or like other anons are saying be glad she is even replying to you. ~Guarded femanon who is going though same things.
>>18543868
>guarded
What does that mean?
>>18543870
For me I have a figurative wall just to make sure no asshats get through. Your gf might be different though or have a different reason entirely. And again just chill out and be patient with her she'll open up... maybe.
>>18543886
I'm not OP i was just wondering.
Guys are generally taught that being nice = bad.
>>18543897
Nah, it's more like "being a pussy" = bad.
>>18543759
It's bad and you know it's bad else you wouldn't be asking about it
I'm not saying be an asshole to her but contest and stand your ground against her more. A girl saying you're too kind is the same as my pic. All it takes is someone starts making her laugh and cry and she's not gonna mentally be your girlfriend anymore. There HAS to be a challenge.
>>18543793
This honestly.