> remain very close with a friend after high school > this

File: 601009.jpg (1MB, 1168x1732px) Image search: [Google]

1MB, 1168x1732px

> remain very close with a friend after high school
> this friend meets a slightly older lady at his internship
> despite the fact that she is married, he obsesses over her and tells me how much he wants to sleep with her
> months pass and he now claims they're in a "sister/brother" relationship
> she has caused him to reaffirm his commitment to religion, he joins her church, he works with her throughout the week for eight hours a day, he texts her regularly throughout the day when not with her, he washes her dogs, he spends time with her alone at her house, and he attends social gatherings with her and her family
> he tells me she changes clothes with her door open and claims her husband doesn't pay her enough attention
> i warn him he might be getting too close tell him to be careful
> next thing i know he tells me this female friend thinks i'm using him and he should no longer associate himself with me
> while he does do favors for me (usually rides to nearby places and only like every three months when i'm in town), i do offer to pay whenever i can and thank him for all he does
> suddenly all of this becomes a problem and he says i'm taking advantage of him
> i apologize immediately and attempt to talk about it, though he hand waves me off and has an extremely contemptuous attitude towards me for an entire weekend
> two months of no contact goes by and he messages me about a recent accomplishment which i do not reply to
> another month goes by and he messages me again
> this leads to an argument, he doubles down on his position while playing the victim card, and we haven't talked in months
who was at fault?