>be me >meet hot girl in Scouts group >she's really

If you enjoy hanging out with her, then ask her out. Even if she likes someone else, she might come around later.

You don't know the future, anon. If you never try you'll never know. Keep talking to her, keep making her smile, and judge how things are going as time goes by. If eventually you realize it won't go anywhere then move on.

Ya got nothing to lose, buddy.

Thanks man, that makes me feel a lot better.

It's just that I -really- like this girl, and I'm the only one in my group that has never even been in a relationship, never mind getting laid. Fuck, every other guy in that class is either Chad level or approaching Chad level.

It took me ages to get my confidence up to this level, and now it's kinda just... gone. Especially after her friend fucked me over hardcore, and then didn't say a word and just let me embarrass myself. I'll probably feel better after I sleep, but still... fuck.

>>18543313
All this touchy feely stuff is not for promiscuous women anyway. They'll pretend like it is, and then they'll screw you over like what happened here, not that she did it on purpose or necessarily did anything wrong. Your idea of monogamous romance only works with girls who share the exact same idea. Otherwise, you'll end up cheated on, or divorced if you're foolish enough to marry a promiscuous woman.

It's just youth, though. Just keep focusing on your goals and coming up. The odds will be in your favor more and more, as you succeed in life.

>>18543324
Correction, I definitely mean to say "overly promiscuous." Most people experiment *a bit*, and that's just fine. Those who have had a ton of sex partners just don't stay with one person.