Why am I so conservative with my dating life and how do I stop it? I'm 30 years old and can't seem to stop feeling like each girl I date needs to potentially be "the one."
When I was in my 20s I casually dated and fooled around, and it was fun. I kinda wanna get back to that but at my age I feel like a year long relationship with no end goals might be a waste of everyone's time. But I've stopped getting to know anyone and haven't been on a date in like a year and a half.
Higher standarts. Having a gf right now i couldn't be more scared to lose her, because every girl i ever met or she is dealing with seems to be trash.
Like you alredy said: you'd need an end goal
Does she want to have kids
Is her family allright
Is she working like she is supposed to
Etc...
You cant tell me you are meeting only 10/10 socially and look-wise. Just set your standards and than ""chase"" "the one"