>she had some problems a few days ago, period >we talk

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nobody?

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Nobody.

also stop being a woman and go spend time with your friend. it's petty to hold a grudge and if you were really her friend you would be there for her when she's ready. Trust me when I say eventually she's going to stop asking, and you're going to feel like an idiot for not spending time with her. It probably feels like they disrespected you by not including you, going out behind your back, but it sounds like you have your mind made up either way. You're not giving her any option where you're not a raging asshole and is that the kind of person you think she would consider opening up to? Just be glad she did it with someone and keep that jealousy beneath you. Whether she's into you or not, or she can't open up to your or not, it doesn't matter. Don't expect nothing out of anyone, and if they continue to disrespect you, then you can tell them to get fucked, but at least try to be their friend first.

>>18541339
she isn't my friend, she's my gf

>>18541346
Holy shit, you almost gave me a heart attack. Clearly you're hung up on this, but what if she doesn't ask you to "go outside alone"? Are you going to ghost her forever? Whatever bullshit she's going through, I'd go outside. Why not? You can't force her to come to you like she's an animal but I'm just saying eventually that bitch is going to find another bone.

>>18541339
You're not giving her any option where you're not a raging asshole

what

>>18541360
fair point i guess

What I meant is it doesn't sound like you're giving her any options here.

If she doesn't ask, you're angry she doesn't include you more. If she does ask, it's just because you won't be pissed off anymore.
>>18541364
Hell she probably feels guilty about not including you. She had other things on her mind dude. Take your anger and whatever justified emotions you have about this and put them aside for a minute. You still don't know exactly what's going on here. If you're angry with her like you are now she's probably going to be scared of how you'll react, and she doesn't need to add that to her list of worries, because clearly something was going on. Swallow your pride, and choose to be a more supportive boyfriend. Whatever shit she's going through she'd probably appreciate it if you were there. She might not open up completely, she might want to talk about other things, and that's fine, don't force it to happen. Be whatever she needs right now, and when some time passes, then you can communicate to her how you felt.

Lol she's gonna dump you one day and you'll have no idea why, will you?

Christ you're petty, why she's jumping through hoops to try and appease your ass I'll never know.

>>18539697
She's making an effort to hang out and you're saying no.

Eventually she'll stop trying entirely. Is that what you want?

>>18539697
Just tell her you want to out with just her for once.

>>18541686
i told her this a thousand fucking times already, i swear, and every time i do its a different excuse

>>18541374
i've been supportive a lot, and i first went in thinking "don't be selfish, you don't matter, she does."

but when she fucks me over like this i can't help but draw the line

>>18541874
Then break up

>>18541874

I mean wtf are you asking her? Are you asking her like just it's just to be outside doing random shit, or are you inviting her to specific things like it's a date?

My honest opinion is this:

She finds you emotionally exhausting, so while she still still loves you and cares for you as her bf (as evidenced by the fact that she's trying to correct her mistake and invite you out), she's not motivated or excited by the thought of being with you because she's subconsciously waiting for some hammer to drop all the time. As in, she knows that you're going to flip out about something sooner or later and it's psychologically draining. That's why she's perfectly happy and willing to go out with friends, because she does feel any pressure, anxiety or obligation in their presence - she can just be free.

As far as you're concerned, it sounds like there's just something irritating the fuck out of you in general and you're directing it at her because your relationship is the only concrete thing that you feel like you have some kind of control over.

>>18542585
You understand as much about women as I do about gender roles.

I'm not a tumblr user.

>>18542585
this is the first time i've acted like this, and there's nothing irritating me other than her. it's just her.

whilst she had her problems she didn't talk to me for a long, long amount of time and I understood that and I didn't really say much about it. i left her space.

i should also mention she texts me every day and our conversations last throught the whole day pretty much