How do I stop feeling shit because of the retarded shit my girlfriend does when she's away from me?
She's really nice and gentle most of the time we are together, but the simplest things like being hungry, on her period or under pressure to hand in a paper can change her into an unbearable cunt. Right now she's finishing her field practice, the final exam's today and she's coming over tomorrow, but this past week she's been the worst bitch I've ever cared for. I realize I shouldn't care about any such stupid thing, but it's been really sorrowful, too much so to make sense. How do I stop having these awful feelings?
>>18538502
As she's effectively using you as a punching bag for her frustrations you don't and you should not. Explain to her, that despite you love her, you're not her doormat and have had it with her behaviour.
>>18538513
Alright, I'll do it tomorrow when we are at my place. Should I be gentle about it or pose an ultimatum?
>>18538524
Ultimatums are the life equivalent of painting yourself into a corner. Unless you plan to follow through don't ... Personally I'd come to a point if my SO did this, where she would either better herself or I'd end the relationship. Of course I would have told her to stop at least a couple of times first.