Guys I'll keep this short. I really need to see a legitimate

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2017-07-20 12:44:24 Post No. 18538147
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 12:44:24 Post No. 18538147 [Report]

Guys I'll keep this short. I really need to see a legitimate therapist, but this is raw and I need feedback. I'll greentext the quick rundown

>gf of 3 years has been acting weird for the past 4 months
>total behavior pattern shift
>breaks up with me in late June, citing no reason just that she feels we've drifted
>leaves our apartment to visit family
>try to ask her why she broke things off, that I still love her
>she ignores me
>find out through mutual friends she has breast cancer
>she tells me yesterday they caught it early but that she's still healing
>I can't even be there for her or help because she all but cut me out of her life
>have to live with her for 6 months more on this lease at uni

What do I do? I'm more lost than ever. I need a sober perspective

Anonymous 2017-07-20 12:51:53 Post No.18538156
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 12:51:53 Post No.18538156 [Report]

>>18538147

Here's something to consider: Girls are weird. She may have broken up with you because she's afraid she'll die, or be seriously sick, and she doesn't want you to suffer through that for her. She might have, counter-intuitively, been trying to create space between you out of love.

Anonymous 2017-07-20 12:52:43 Post No.18538158
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 12:52:43 Post No.18538158 [Report]

>>18538147
Hate it OP but this isn't about you at all. Having cancer and faced with the real possibility of dying fucks with you, it sucks all the oxygen out of the room and gives you tunnel vision. Your relationship is over, cancer killed it.

Anonymous 2017-07-20 01:08:36 Post No.18538179
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 01:08:36 Post No.18538179 [Report]

this isnt about cancer, she survived, its more about you not being the person she wants to spend her life with

when the clock suddenly starts ticking ppl become realistic and stop being lazy

i also seriously suggest looking elsewhere, you cannot count on a person like this

Anonymous 2017-07-20 01:22:37 Post No.18538217
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Anonymous 2017-07-20 01:22:37 Post No.18538217 [Report]

>>18538147
I feel like I have to try one last time, after letting things cool off for a couple weeks and just being her friend and supporting her getting better.

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