How do I stop being like this?
>new job
>couple of cute girls
>talk to them
>make them laugh and such when i can
>feel like i'm getting closer to them
>check their instagram or facebook whatever
>'in a relationship' tier
>get sad as shit
>stop flirting with them, not cruel, just treat them as good coworkers
like i dont feel like its worth it to try. like im wasting my time.
im so god damn pathetic, i reject myself before they do
>>18536973
Set your goal to just goofing around with them. Think of it as practice or something. Then you're making people happy and not wasting your time. And worst case, they break up with their bf and you might have a shot.
bamp